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From headmistress to mayoress: Mary’s remarkable life in print

A MUCH-LOVED resident at a Wilton care home is celebrating a lifetime of memories after turning her life story into a book for future generations.

Mary Paisey, who lives at Wilton Place Care Home, has worked with biographer Nicky Dee to create a personal Memory Book – a keepsake capturing the moments, people and experiences that have shaped her life.

The finished book will be celebrated with family and friends on Saturday (April 18).

Mary, who moved to the home in April 2025, is well known to staff and residents, many of whom have shared in her excitement as the project came to life.

Her story spans decades of service to the community. In 1986, she became headmistress at La Retraite in Salisbury – later renamed Leehurst Swan – remaining there until her retirement in 1994.

She later took on civic duties alongside her husband, Patrick, when he became mayor in 2005, with Mary serving as mayoress and enjoying what she describes as “such fun” at public events.

Biographer Nicky Dee said: “Writing Mary’s Memory Book has truly been a pleasure.

“The family have been with us every step of the way, helping to unearth and clarify memories of Mary’s remarkable life.

“Learning more about Mary through researching her life and writing her book, meeting family and hearing their stories and anecdotes has been, as Mary would say, ‘Such fun!’

“Thank you, Mary, for the opportunity to preserve your memories, accomplishments, and vibrant history. It has been an honour and a privilege”.

Mary’s completed story.

The book includes remarkable moments, including Mary’s meeting with Winston Churchill at a London gala in 1955.

Reflecting on that encounter, she recalled his handshake as surprisingly “flaccid!” and remembered him telling her father: “This one will be good for breeding!”

General manager at the home Antoinette Roberts said: “We believe here at Wilton Place, that every moment is worth cherishing. It is wonderful to see how happy Mary Paisey is with this special accomplishment.”

For Mary and her family, the book is more than memories – it’s a legacy to be treasured.

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